Tie your deadline to concrete planning needs: table sizes, controller counts, pizza orders, and seating for quieter games. Say, “Please reply by Wednesday so we can finalize tournament brackets and snacks.” If limited slots exist, explain how waitlisting works, and confirm when you’ll release unclaimed spots. Offer a kindness window for emergencies but keep decisions clear. Purposeful deadlines reduce awkward follow-ups, build trust, and show you’re organizing with care, ensuring the experience feels as thoughtful as the invitation looked and felt.
Send one gentle reminder a few days before the deadline with a playful line from your mascot. Keep it short: “Bear here—still saving your seat! Reply by Friday?” Avoid stacking messages or guilt. If someone hasn’t responded, one final nudge the day after the deadline is acceptable, especially if you need to reallocate spots. Respectful tone maintains relationships while still protecting your planning timeline. People appreciate clarity and kindness, especially when their week became busier than expected despite good intentions.
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